“If both of you are putting each other first then no one comes second.”~Anonymous
Any successful relationship must be rooted in love. However, love is not enough. Love brings bliss in the early stages of relationships, but it only grows and blossoms if it is tempered with this one special quality.
Loving someone unconditionally means loving the very essence of the individual. Just as they are. Despite what they do or fail to do, with no expectation of anything in return—including love.
Humans remain in a perpetual state of change. We are getting older, gaining more knowledge and learning new things.
If both of you are exactly the same, one of you is unnecessary.
Love is a reciprocal force. The more you give the more you receive.
The journey towards creating intimate relationships is therefore potentially never ending and everyone’s experience in learning to be intimate is different.
One of the most popular misconceptions surrounding marriage is that once you make it through the wedding day–say your “I do’s,” you ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. Nothing could be further from the truth.