Learning To Stop Being A People Pleaser Is Essential For Growth And Happiness

Everyone needs to be safe, loved and to have a sense of belonging. These are innate and natural basic human needs. In an effort to have these needs satisfied, many of us resort to people pleasing. And it works for a while. We find that we experience less conflict with others, but the conflict within ourselves grows. Saying “no” produces feelings of guilt, and saying yes brings anger and resentment. It is the quintessential dilemma–  you find yourself caught between a “rock and a hard place.”

The ability to stop pleasing others as a coping mechanism after it has been a way of life for so long is easier said than done. But it is possible. Read more

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